What advice do you have for fellow kinky people who are looking to hook up ?
The same advice I've always had, get yourself out there in the real world, find out where there's a BDSM or power exchange support group that meeting in your area (your local adult outlet is good place to find advertisements), start going to meetings and start making those connections. Even if you don't find the damsel, villain or villainess of your dreams, it's good to meet with like-minded folks once in a while and even have a few play sessions from time to time. If you don't have the courage and passion to do that- well, you're on your own- literally.